Wednesday, November 26, 2008

My 30 Favorite Things About Kansas

OK, so it took me almost 5 months instead of 30 days, but I have finally compiled my 30 favorite things about my new Kansas home. It has been a great exercise at a needed time – this time of being past the newness and busyness of moving, but not really feeling a part of this community yet can be a difficult and lonely time. So, focusing on the positive – here is my list!

1. My double rainbow – seen out of the apartment the day the moving truck was scheduled to arrive, it’s memory is my constant reminder that we are where God desires us to be and that He has a purpose for us here. You can check out this post to see the whole story: http://gettingtotheheartland.blogspot.com/2008/07/kindling.html.
2. The flowers in my new yard. When we arrived in July, my backyard was in full bloom, it was fun!
3. Sitting on my patio on summer mornings and not getting eaten by mosquitos.
4.Crisp, clear air – less pollution and less smog along with less humidity make for noticeably clearer air.
5. Evenings on my patio with almost no mosquito bites – I had a couple by the end of the season, but I could still sit with my family and enjoy a meal and a relaxing conversation without being driven inside by mosquitos – something I have NEVER really experienced before.
6. Traffic – or the lack thereof. A Wichita traffic jam is at most not getting through a traffic light in 2 cycles – I have never sat through more that 2 cycles of a traffic light here, and even that is very rare.
7. My herb garden. Frost has destroyed it now, but I had a nice little square in my inherited garden where chives, oregano, rosemary, and a large basil plant grew – right outside my back door!
8. The Summer wind – I thought I would really hate it, but it was a welcome thing in the heat of the summer. Now Winter wind – that’s a different story!
9. Cultural opportunities that we actually take advantage of because they are fairly inexpensive and easy to get to. We have been to a musical, a symphony concert with and Irish ladies band, the art museum, the science museum, the botanical gardens, and even a chili cook off in downtown Wichita!
10. Chocolate pie – one of my new neighbors brought a chocolate pie to our door to welcome us to the neighborhood – YUM!
11. Getting around Wichita – the flat landscape allows for straight roads – set up in a very logical grid system makes navigation very easy!
12. Being able to see a long way. I have really come to enjoy the vista that a flat, relatively sparsely treed landscape provides.
13. The Flint Hills – these rolling hills are the closest thing Kansas has to mountains, and they have their own, special kind of beauty. Because of the geography they are pretty much treeless, but from the top of one of the higher areas you can see rolling green (in summer) beauty layed out before you – I have never seen anything quite like it, and I really find it quite beautiful.
14. Wind Farms. These fields of rows upon rows of windmills set on the rolling hills are really quite fascinating.
15. The stars at night. The clear air mentioned in #4 along with a little less light pollution (in some areas anyway) than Atlanta, makes for some pretty good stargazing. And I love gazing at a starry sky.
16. Being 2 ½ - 3 hours from IHOP (International House of Prayer) in Kansas City. I’ve only taken advantage of it once, but I like knowing it’s there, and I will be back!
17. Taking walks on the golf course – we have to do this during non-golfing hours in the early morning or in the evening – and those are really quite pleasant times!
18. The Great Plains Nature Center – literally about 3-4 miles from my door, a great place to enjoy the great outdoors in the unique nature of this area, and to take some great photos.
19. Average folk. It seems that there is less focus on “keeping up with the Joneses” here than in some places I have lived. I like that.
20. Meeting some of my neighbors while standing in line to vote at 5:45a.m.
21. The bike trails around town. Again, our flat terrain makes for easy bike riding, and there are several paved trails around town. I have always enjoyed bike-riding.
22. Watching the seasons change out of my own kitchen window. I “inherited” a pretty well planted/gardened yard, and I am grateful to the previous owner for doing such a great job of picking plants and trees with such great seasonal interest!
23. My Maiden Grass. One of my favorite plants I have been watching out my window is my Maiden Grass. It started out in July as a relatively non descript but not un-attractive clump of green grass, then in late August it developed these beautiful purplish plumes which now have become beautiful silvery feathery crests that dance gracefully in the wind – beautiful!
24. My 10-15 minute drive to work. I know I have already listed the traffic and the ease of traveling in Wichita – but my 10-15 minute drive time to work means extra time for quiet time (or for sleep). My commute time for the 7 ½ miles to work in Marietta was at least 30 minutes, usually more!
25. Knowing that if I needed to, I could walk to the drugstore, the tea shop, the grocery store, a wine shop, the dry cleaners, church – they are all a mile to a mile and a half away from my door. Haven’t taken advantage of this yet, but I like knowing I can.
26. The opportunity to serve the less fortunate. Yes, I know the opportunity to volunteer and to serve were available to me in Marietta, but for some reason I have taken advantage of the opportunity here and I didn’t in Marietta.
27. Christmas Lights. Haven’t seen this in full bloom yet, but apparently one of the things Wichita is known for at this time of year are it’s light displays. I’m excited and interested to see what that means – in fact our office Christmas celebration this year includes riding a party bus around town to see the displays. I’ll keep you posted.
28. My Veterinarian. Nick has had some special needs since we have been here, including losing a toe to a cancerous tumor. But he is healthy now, and I really like his Vet. (I’ve also found a loving, caring groomer – Yay! – But I still miss Holly).
29. My Patio. Well into the fall we were able to take advantage of our outdoor living area, which is nice and large, partially covered with the ability to block most of the direct sunlight, and graced by the sounds of our fountain. It’s really one of the main things that sold us on the house, and we have enjoyed it.
30. And last, but certainly not least – and maybe actually my most favorite – We are in driving (yes, it is an 8 hour drive – but still a drive) distance to the Colorado Rocky Mountains – we have done it twice already!

So that’s my list!!!! Like I said, sitting down and doing this has been good for me. What better way to celebrate Thanksgiving! So, Happy Thanksgiving to all of you – we miss you but we are grateful that we have so much to be thankful for!

Saturday, November 15, 2008

My Favorite Thing about living in Kansas .....

Back in July when we first moved to Kansas, I started a list of favorite things about my new home. I never really finished it, and no, that's not what this post is about. However, i have decided what my number one favorite thing about my new home is: being in driving distance of the beautiful Colorado Rockies. I think I aluded to that fact last month when Kim and I went to check out Colorado Christian for the first time. Well, we went back for a long weekend this week so she could spend the night on campus and so Steve could see the school. And now it is official, my favorite thing about living in Kansas is Colorado!






Maybe I will finally finish that list and post it soon. There really are things I like about Kansas, too.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Shut Up, Get Over Yourselves, and Start Talking

As I have pondered the political process these past few weeks, and as I have struggled to make some sense of my own views and frustrations, one thing has been consistent: our nation's polarization is it's biggest problem. As a committed Christ following citizen, and as a parent trying to hear the heart of a child, it has been frustrating to watch and experience as I myself have gotten caught up in this wave. It has been the struggles closest to me that have made me realize (with the help of a couple of co-authors of a book - "Common Ground" by Cal Thomas and Bob Beckel) that the majority of Christ following voters on both sides of the political divide really have common beliefs and goals: the sanctity of human life, reasonable access to healthcare, equal access to a good education, relief of poverty. But as long as we get swept up in the tide and behave like the polarized politicians representing us, all we accomplish is making a lot of noise, and we do a great deal to tarnish our witness. As long as the unbelievers among us see us going right along with the loudest voices - accusing each other of sympathizing with baby killers or of being greedy, uncompassionate powermongers, they won't be seeing Christ in us. I believe what we really need to do is to be still and know that God is God, to seek and listen to His voice and His Word, and then - as I heard on Grey's Anatomy last night, we and our politicians really need to Shut up, get over ourselves, and start talking to find solutions.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Conquering Generational Curses!

My lovely daughter, with the patient prodding and help of her wonderful husband, is learning to conquer the chaos. Yes, she has inherited the curse of clutter from both of her parents. I tend to like to hide my clutter in drawers and closets, but it is still there! Anyway, she and her hubby conquered the piles of her clothes in their bedroom and got them ALL folded or hung and put away! I am so proud of her! I was also inspired by the video on her blog on how to fold a t-shirt - I tried it, it worked, and it was really easy!! So, I thought to myself - I wonder if I can find a video to teach me how to fold my fitted sheets - I am frustrated by that task every time I try it and usually just end up kind of wadding the thing up and flattening it out - doesn't make for a very neat looking closet. I was so excited when I found several videos on YouTube- so I watched a couple of them and now I am the proud owner of a neatly folded fitted sheet in my closet - after 49 years I have a neatly folded fitted sheet - and it was really pretty easy!! YAY!

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

The Mountains Make My Heart Sing!!!!!






Kim and I went to Colorado to check out Colorado Christian University this past weekend. We had a great time, and yes, Kim loved the school! I just can't describe the feeling I have when I am in the mountains - the most I can say is that they truly make my heart sing! We drove on Thursday (yes, Kansas is in driving distance of the beautiful Colorado mountains - definitely one of my favorite things about living in Kansas), visited the college and played a little on Friday, played all day Saturday, and drove back home on Sunday. The drive takes about 7 1/2 hours - 8 when you add meal and potty breaks. Broken into 2 1/2 hour segments it is kind of like this: the 2 1/2 hours between Wichita and Hays, Kansas is kind of pretty with the farmland and some rolling hills and a really cool and extremely large windmill farm;



the 2 1/2 hours from the Colorado border to Denver or Colorado Springs is pretty as you see the plains begin to roll and then the mountains to pop out; but the 2 1/2 hours in the middle is some of the most boring driving and landscape you can imagine! - FLAT and nearly Treeless and not particularly colorfull. Right after lunch on Thursday that middle segment seemed nearly impossible - lunch in my belly and a perfectly straight, flat, boring road made my eyelids kind of heavy! Thanks to my IPOD and some great music and podcasts, we made it!

I think Kim has posted about the school, so check her blog out for that. http://kimjoythoughts.blogspot.com/

I will just add that it really did seem like a place where a diverse group of young adults are seeking to learn and live the christian life in an incredible Christ-following community. I like it for Kim.

After visiting the school, we drove down to Colorado Springs to play on Friday afternoon and Saturday. We hiked in a park called North Cheyenne Canyon Park, drove to the top of Pike's peak, walked around in amazement at the Garden of the Gods -a park which was given to the city by a family fulfilling their father's wish that the area be "forever free to the public" (It was really incredible) and basically just enjoyed being in the mountains! We also got to shop at Whole Foods Market (one of the places we really miss here in Wichita) and even ate our dinner there Saturday night with a spectacular view of the sun setting over the mountains. Did I mention that I love the mountains? Colorado Springs was really a neat place, and yes, we did drive into the parking lot of Focus on the Family - just to see it, but we didn't make time to go to the visitors center (it was already closed when we drove through the parking lot).

So, that was our weekend adventure. And by the way, I really love the mountains : )

Sunday, September 28, 2008

Just a quick update

Since it's been a little while, just thought I'd put a few words on here. We just spent an awesome weekend with our sweet eldest daughter and her wonderful hubby- they flew out here Friday night and back home this afternoon. It was SOOOO good to see them and spend some great time together. It had been a little strange for Elaine to never have seen the place her parent's now call home - so now she has a point of reference when I tell her about sitting on my patio, feeling the Kansas breeze on my skin and listening to the sound of my fountain - and Keith figured out the grid system that makes Wichita so easy to get around really quickly!!! We had a pretty busy weekend - walked the nature center early Saturday morning, then on to Old Town to check on the farmer's market (pretty slim pickins - getting toward the end of their season), then on to Wichita's Chili cook off for lunch. We tasted lots of chili, and only had to dump one sample in the trash can! Then back home for a little rest and some dinner before heading on to the Wichita Symphony for a performance with Cherish the Ladies for a really fun evening. Elaine, Kim and I headed back to the nature center to take pictures this morning before church, and squeezed in a quick shopping excursion after lunch ( Mom likes the chance to spoil her kids - and they don't usually turn it down!). All to quickly the weekend was over and we were on our way to take them back to the airport to head home - but it sure was great to have them here!

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Quirks

My sweet daughter tagged me on her blog to list 6 quirky things about myself. While I think it would have been far easier for her to come up with 6 quirky things about me, I did manage to come up with a list:

1. I am a nurse Certified (that means I have taken special training and passed specific testing) in Wound (self explanatory), Ostomy (those surgical bypasses to our human plumbing system that create the necessity to wear a pouch to contain bodily wastes), and Continence (those issues that make it difficult for some to control their plumbing system) nursing – and I love my job!
2. I am a nerd at heart. I love studying and learning. Just the other day I got really excited when I figured out one of Kim’s algebra problems (its been a REALLY long time since I took algebra), and I can remember my uncontainable excitement when I learned the amazing series of events that takes place in the human body when it is wounded and begins what we call the wound healing cascade. See, I told you I was nerdy.
3. I have a horrible sense of direction, but somehow I think I can always find a better or shorter route – makes for a lot of time lost (that is why even though it drives the rest of my family crazy – I love my GPS).
4. I can’t stand to be tapped on the shoulder – don’t know why, just know it drives me crazy!
5. I have a place in the middle of my back that if someone runs their finger up my back it makes me just about wiggle out of my skin – Steve knows exactly where it is ; ) .
6. I get really nervous when the rules aren’t being followed. And perhaps my biggest pet peeve is when the “unwritten” rules aren’t followed – you know, like the unwritten rule that when deplaning an airplane you always let the people seated in front of you out first without rushing past them, things like that make me nuts!

So, I guess I’m fairly quirky – I even thought of a few more I didn’t put on here.

So now, I tag:
Youngerdaughter
Brandie
Debbie
Chip
(Oh dear, do I even know 6 other bloggers who know I read their blogs??)
KayeC
My Niece and her hubby (their blog is private, so you won't be able to link to it here)


And the rules:
Here are the rules:
1. Link back to the person who tagged you.
2. Mention the rules on your blog.
3. Tell 6 unspectacular quirks of yours
4. Tag 6 fellow bloggers by linking to them
5. Leave a comment for each tagged blogger to let them know they've been tagged.